Friday, February 11, 2011

Often to the children learn positive psychology suggests

 Often to the children learn positive psychology suggests
we often hear some parents face in front of other children, said: , ingredients, including, but over time, these words will give the child to bring a spiritual damage and danger can not be underestimated. It is implemented in the child a negative psychological implications. Over time, the children heard more would also have considered himself like that, but also that these If children do not make progress would also be a reason and an excuse.
about a decade ago, I found one of my relatives said that their child. because the child's homework is relatively slow pace, In fact, the real reason was mainly the child did not waste time doing homework, look around. but my relatives have told me this: woodworking it. psychological implications, which is often directly or indirectly, praise the child, praise the child, encouraging the children, the child indicated the way forward and attempt, in the child's mind to form a to the line social identity can be satisfied, they will dare to do what they want to do, use their brains will be made to actively want to do. This not only enables children to form good positive psychology, and their hands ability and brain power will in practice exercise and improve.
So how should parents give their children a positive psychological suggestion it?
First, people learn to say acquaintances with children out experience, and acquaintances talk about the child, must not ; my kids recently because of writing seriously and praised by the teacher, . If having guests, play, parents can take children's certificate, or work, Those words were not said directly to children, but children in the ears to listen, keep in mind. their parents will be in such a positive cue, the words of parents as their own standards of conduct to make further efforts.
Second, learn to encourage kids to participate in a variety of useful activities
are various competitions, contests than more, such as English contests, essay contests, calligraphy competition, drawing competition and so on. as, we should always encourage children to participate in these contests or competitions . If the child for fear of their own level . If the child is often involved in these contests or competitions, not only in this capacity can be improved, but also learn from other players than their textbooks where knowledge and experience, and more importantly, to participate in these activities , give the child an In addition to the game or contest, the parents should encourage their children or take their children to participate in a number of other useful activities.
course, I am here to say that a positive psychological implications for children, not to say that do not directly encourage, praise, praise children. but with the direct encouragement, praise, praise the child compared to the positive role of psychological suggestion is much greater. This is because the direct encouragement, praise, praise, sometimes by children as their parents and

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